What you didn’t see

Tonight I’m laying in my bed hopelessly scrolling through the pictures and videos I captured while I was abroad. Of course, the staged/artsy/cutesy pictures are beautifully breathtaking and make you look like you’re an adventurous person, the ugly selfies and random pictures remind you of all the stories you continue to hold on to and especially about the moments you had with people that changed your life for the better.

Here is a compilation of random photos and untold stories I want to read for my continuous readers and the special people I shared these times with.

XOXO

IMG_5035I thought I broke my jaw playing soccer. It hurt for almost 3 weeks and I had to ice it while Mama Tica was out of the house so she wouldn’t ban me from playing all together.

IMG_6210One time in Nicaragua our bus driver crashed into this car and some innocent bystanders helped him escape without a consequence…

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All those times we bought popcorn to take home instead of watch a movie at the theater.

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When Liza and I hacked Morri’s phone and this cute picture was salvaged. IMG_8723

All the times Morri forced a very unhappy Tristan to take a photo with her (note the hight differences)IMG_0256

The time when Cami, Breidy, and I stayed out exploring down town Heredia until 4 AM.IMG_0253

One time Cami and I bought drinks bigger than our heads.IMG_9761Cami moved in for a couple weeks and took over my room.IMG_0002When Ileana (sweetest, most precious human ever) took us to the Eólicas and bought us Plátanos smothered in cheese. Just look how flawless and adorable she is. IMG_0060The time Cami and I decided to treat ourselves and have a relaxing night. Travel can be hard sometimes. IMG_6444Minor told me he didn’t know what snapchat was so I, naturally, had to take a selfie to demonstrate.IMG_8060When Kaleigh and I just couldn’t get the picture quite right. IMG_7661First time having bacon in 3 months. Everyone knew my struggle… I think I cried once ust thinking about how much I missed bacon. IMG_8740Trying to make a really situation (having to apply SPF 85 to my skin) light-hearted.IMG_8447The time we almost died of heat exhaustion and regular exhaustion on our history field trip. IMG_8462David and Morrissa left this lovely little surprise on my phone.IMG_8380The time we went on our history field trip and David got nominated as the selfie king. Look at the stance, the arm position, the lighting… wow.IMG_9267When Anna held some random guy’s hedgehog on the streets of San José. IMG_9118I got my second tattoo in Costa Rica at a place called “Sailor’s Grave” and then afterwards we walked to get ice cream.IMG_7214When Megan tried taking a cute picture of me but instead I look like I got hit by a train.IMG_7207The unnecessary amount of time we took random mirror selfies… this one was to show off our food babies I think. IMG_6910

The time when we went all the way to the other side of the country to go to “Playa Conchal” and rode 7 hours in an air-condition-less bus, but ended up getting to take a NORMAL shower with HOT water and got to sleep on a COMFORTABLE bed. IMG_7171Morri and I took too much drammamine and felt the side-effects, that’s for sure… IMG_6314When I tried making Nicaraguan pottery but instead it looked like poop, actually though.IMG_5976I introduced these homies to Pithaya ice cream. If you’re ever in Nicaragua, get it!IMG_5975When our waiter was too obsessed with us and wanted us to drink beer and also gave us some really interesting relationship advice.IMG_5971All the times Plátanos could have been mistaken as poop.

IMG_5396Morri and I ordered this ice cream and the guy called it “Cremachips” IMG_5395When Morri took it upon herself to take a picture of my double chin IMG_5966When we realized how delicious Guava cookies are.IMG_5736The time I received the nickname “Shenny”… thanks Starbucks barista. IMG_4831When Morri just wasn’t havin’ it.

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The hardest thing about travel

Well, it has almost been one month since I dreadfully boarded that plane and embarked on my journey back to the United States after having been in Costa Rica for 4 and a half months. How does that make me feel? I don’t know.

This is an **honest** blog post about my thoughts on being home. Thank you for taking time to read this.

I’m sure you’re thinking, “How could you not possibly know how you feel about being the United States? The land of the free and the home of the brave. Where there’s sweet tea and..”   (Ok, maybe a little dramatic.. but you get it). Honestly, I do know how I feel but I cannot seem to gather all of my thoughts and feelings and put them into words. I want to walk slow and live life like the ticos do, tell people “pura vida” when they get too worked up about life, throw my toilet paper in the trash, be surrounded by the wonderful people I met along the way. I want all of these things and many others, but what I want the most is for people to understand where I’m coming from. Most people don’t understand WHY I study Spanish and WHY I love traveling so much and WHY I want to end up living in Central America.. Most will never understand and that often times makes me feel small.

One of my precious friends I made while in Costa Rica sent the link to an article to our group message of close friends.. It talks about the things people don’t consider when they talk about traveling. Of course there have been so many people that have asked me how Costa Rica was in passing, but very few have showed interest and if they do I’m not sure what to say. Do I say, “It was good” or “I loved it”? Those answers are mediocre and don’t come close to describing my adventure-packed experience, yet I can’t respond to this basic question in just a couple of minutes. Some people ask because they feel obligated to and some people that should feel obligated to ask don’t. It feels like I have all of these stories to tell and pictures to show and nobody who is willing to sit down and listen to me go on and on about the best 4 months of my entire life. The 4 months that changed the person I am, that made me a more confident person, that changed the way I look at life, etc. This is blog post that explains it perfectly:

The Hardest Part of Travelling that No One Talks About

You see the world, try new things, meet new people, fall in love, visit amazing places, learn about other cultures – then it’s all over. People always talk about leaving, but what about coming home?

We talk about the hard parts while we’re away – finding jobs, making real friends, staying safe, learning social norms, misreading people you think you can trust – but these are all parts you get through. All of these lows are erased by the complete highs you experience. The goodbyes are difficult but you know they are coming, especially when you take the final step of purchasing your plane ticket home. All of these sad goodbyes are bolstered by the reunion with your family and friends you have pictured in your head since leaving in the first place.

Then you return home, have your reunions, spend your first two weeks meeting with family and friends, catch up, tell stories, reminisce, etc. You’re Hollywood for the first few weeks back and it’s all new and exciting. And then it all just…goes away. Everyone gets used to you being home, you’re not the new shiny object anymore and the questions start coming: So do you have a job yet? What’s your plan? Are you dating anyone? 

You’re glad everyone is happy and healthy and yes, people have gotten new jobs, boyfriends, engagements, etc., but part of you is screaming don’t you understand how much I have changed? And I don’t mean hair, weight, dress or anything else that has to do with appearance. I mean what’s going on inside of your head. The way your dreams have changed, they way you perceive people differently, the habits you’re happy you lost, the new things that are important to you. You want everyone to recognize this and you want to share and discuss it, but there’s no way to describe the way your spirit evolves when you leave everything you know behind and force yourself to use your brain in a real capacity, not on a written test in school. You know you’re thinking differently because you experience it every second of every day inside your head, but how do you communicate that to others?

You feel angry. You feel lost. You have moments where you feel like it wasn’t worth it because nothing has changed but then you feel like it’s the only thing you’ve done that is important because it changed everything. What is the solution to this side of traveling? It’s like learning a foreign language that no one around you speaks so there is no way to communicate to them how you really feel.

This is why once you’ve traveled for the first time all you want to do is leave again. They call it the travel bug, but really it’s the effort to return to a place where you are surrounded by people who speak the same language as you. Not English or Spanish or Mandarin or Portuguese, but that language where others know what it’s like to leave, change, grow, experience, learn, then go home again and feel more lost in your hometown then you did in the most foreign place you visited.

This is the hardest part about traveling, and it’s the very reason why we all run away again.

These words, this article is everything to me in this weird place that I’m in. I feel like I have changed so much, so little has changed here at home, and some things just can’t be the same again. People want to know about the surface level stuff like how I look like I’ve gotten some color, but don’t want to ask me how it impacted ME as a person. I walked the streets of San José like I had lived there my whole life but yet can’t seem to have the same conversations I had with people close to me or engage in every day activities like I did before I left like walking around Target just because or spending hours in my favorite coffee shop. I truly believe it’s because my heart is still somewhere else and desires different things that I never imagined I would miss. HOW DO YOU MAKE HOME FEEL LIKE HOME AGAIN? One of the hardest battles is knowing that I met some of my best friends, life-long friends on this journey but yet they live so far away. Some came back home just like me and had to readjust to this crazy-hectic culture and others stayed behind in the happiest country in the world to readjust to a life without us crazy gringos running around campus (haha!). What I’m trying to say is that I’m just extremely frustrated and I feel like a foreigner in my own country. Costa Rica feels like a distant dream and it’s almost as if I’ve swept it under the carpet and been urged to go back to real life.. I no longer want to do this. It was a life-changing period of my life that I never want to stop reminiscing on.

Like one of my favorite quotes says,

              “Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully, you leave something good behind.”

Travel isn’t easy, leaving isn’t easy, but what is even harder? Coming home.

100 Adventures Abroad

I am currently typing up this post from the United States (yes, I am home) and it is a bittersweet moment. Throughout the semester I jotted down all of the adventures I embarked on and all of the experiences I had from my time abroad in Costa Rica. Enjoy!

P.S. If my English does not make sense, forgive me, I’ve been speaking nothing but Spanish the past 5 months.

  1. Lived off the grid on a Caribbean beach for a weekend
  2. Rode across the ocean in a boat to arrive at said island
  3. Witnessed hippies worshipping mother earth
  4. Ate plants
  5. Used a compost outhouse… we threw saw dust on our feces. Sorry you had to picture
  6. that mentally
  7. Made chocolate from cacao fruit
  8. Went snorkeling
  9. Bathed in mud
  10. Hiked the jungle for 3 hours in knee-deep mud
  11. Came within 5 feet of a howler monkey
  12. Went white water rafting on Río Pacuare
  13. Took my first ever taxi ride
  14. Also took my first Uber ride once I realized that all taxi drivers are good for are
  15. ripping you off and making you angry
  16. Drank my first beer
  17. Learned how to dance and went dancing A LOT
  18. Planned many successful trips to the beach
  19. Was a tour guide and translator for my parents
  20. Injured my jaw playing soccer
  21. Basically became best friends with a 14 year old who told me all about his love life
  22. and the dates he takes girls on
  23. Got lost in San José many times {but now I know it like the back of my hand}
  24. Found a sand dollar
  25. Went to a Costa Rica league soccer game
  26. Also went to the Costa Rica vs. Jamaica world cup qualifier soccer game
  27. Fell asleep in the national theater
  28. Swam in a river canyon {google Río Pacuare canyon}
  29. Almost got ran over by a bus
  30. Got a massage on the beach… naked
  31. Stood on the edge of an active volcano, Poás
  32. Fed a racoon
  33. Crossed over to Nicaragua by bus
  34. Smuggled mango across both Costa Rican and Nicaraguan borders {and got sick from
  35. eating this fruit, karma?}
  36. Swam in a lagoon
  37. Made pottery
  38. Got yelled at by angry Nicaraguan woman for taking a photo of the fruit she was
  39. selling
  40. Had to buy SPF 85 sunscreen
  41. “Became the virgin Mary” because I had to wear my sarong on my head every time we
  42. went to the beach
  43. Rode 6 hours on an un-airconditioned bus
  44. Got cat called MANY times… every single day
  45. Drank from a coconut on the beach
  46. Got asked out on a date and went
  47. Went parasailing
  48. Jumped off of a waterfall
  49. Saw a beach shaped like a whale tale {during low tide}
  50. Visited a national park
  51. Traveled by train
  52. Visited one of the most beautiful cathedrals I’ve ever seen
  53. Ate lunch on a farm
  54. Can count on one hand the amount of times I ate meat in 5 months
  55. Saw a sloth in the flesh
  56. Went on a field trip with my history class
  57. Went to a beach on the field trip and watched class mates play soccer
  58. Got my second tattoo
  59. Wore typical Costa Rican dresses
  60. Experienced the rainy season… aka DOWNPOURS
  61. Went to a natural pool {the water comes from a natural spring}
  62. Got chased by a drunk man with no shirt on
  63. Got ripped off by a taxi driver {he gave me bills from Honduras}
  64. Missed many busses
  65. Was present for a volcano explosion {there was ash in the air and people were
  66. walking around with their faces covered}
  67. Sweat A LOT
  68. Almost got attacked by a enormous flock of doves
  69. Saw wind turbines in the mountains
  70. Got a $4 haircut
  71. Joined a friend to get her first tattoo
  72. Learned how to make tortillas
  73. Started drinking coffee black
  74. Ate way too much ice cream
  75. Got weird sunburns
  76. Swam in a FREEZING COLD waterfall
  77. Was on the Costa Rican news, twice
  78. Made INCREDIBLE friends {some who will definitely be bridesmaids in my wedding
  79. some day}
  80. Went to the beach with our Mama Tica and her family
  81. Brushed my teeth from a bottle of water at a bus stop
  82. Made sandcastles
  83. Went surfing for the first time
  84. Walked around a weird surfer town at night {lots of strange things going on}
  85. Went zip lining over the rainforest
  86. Learned more about Costa Rican history/government than I ever have about the US
  87. Saw lots of cute Tico boys… everywhere, I’m  😉
  88. Learned about recycling and how important taking care of the earth is.
  89. Never thought I would use math as much as I did to convert USD to Colones {544 Colones to 1 USD}
  90. Freaked out when I first saw the money because it’s colorful and the bills have animals on them
  91. Realized that toilets weren’t made for paper and now it feels like a crime to not throw my toilet paper in the trash
  92. Lived with an amazing Christian woman who taught me so much, not just about having a relationship with Christ but about being the mother I want to someday be for my kids
  93. Also lived with someone who started out as stranger and ended up being like a sister {Megan}
  94. Found out that not everyone from California is crazy {Morri and Cami hahaha}
  95. Learned how to face my fears with the help of my SOLmates
  96. Fell in love with the culture/way of greeting/people more than I ever imagined I would
  97. Became a more confident person and realized that it is far more important to be yourself than to be someone that others want you to be
  98. Realized that good friends last a life time, whether they live across the country or world from you or not
  99. Learned to face my fears, love much, follow my heart, trust in God, and be myself
  100. Realized that goodbyes are not always “goodbyes”, sometimes they are just “see you soons”

PURA VIDA!!

A little update

Hello folks. As I said before, the Costa Rica adventures are not over yet. I still have three weeks left! I don’t have much to report for the past couple of weeks, but I’ll get you caught up.

All but two of my friends headed back to the states about two weeks ago and we had to say the goodbye that we had all been dreading.. It’s honestly so strange. Like I have mentioned previously, I did not come to Costa Rica with expectations of meeting life long friends, but it happened. However, now that the program is over and we have all gone our separate ways, it is such a strange feeling. We are thrown into this crazy adventure, become so close in such a short matter of time, and then head back to try and adapt to our normal lives again.. which will be impossible. All of the close friends I have made throughout this experience live so far away from me {California, Minnesota, Nebraska, Chicago, DC, etc.} which makes it even more difficult. The goodbye was tough. How couldn’t it have been? It was the last time we were all in the same place at the same time. Although it has been weird not sending a group text to see if anyone wants to get ice cream or being able to hang out every day, I am BEYOND grateful to have had the opportunity to extend my stay. What have I done so far you ask? Not much but it’s been wonderful.

Okay so first of all, my house mate/friend Megan and other friend Cami are also staying until May 29, so I’m not alone.

Megan and I visited Cartago- a little town about an hour away that is home to one of the most beautiful Catholic churches I’ve ever seen in my life, la Basílica de Los Ángeles. We also walked past Las Ruinas {ruins of Cartago}, where a church once stood before it was destroy by an earthquake. Inside the ruins is a beautiful garden that you can walk through and pond you can throw coins into, which I did but I can’t tell you my wish 😉

We have been practicing our bachata/salsa/cumbia/merengue dancing at a recently discovered disco club, which has been REALLY fun. Speaking of going out, I went out of with my friends David and Alex this past monday and I can honestly say it was one of the funnest nights I’ve had in Costa Rica so far. We hopped on a bus to San José and then from San José to San Pedro where we danced and spent the whole night laughing. David and Alex were practicing their english all night. Example:

“Shandi cómo se dice tengo hambre?”

“I am hungry”

“Shandi cómo se dice tengo calor?”

“I am hot”

They were so thrilled to be learning so many new vocabulary words, however I was NOT the one that taught them the cuss words.. I’m not really sure how they know them but they do haha. After we finished dancing we walked to Taco Bell through the train tracks, which yes was a bit sketchy at night, but it was fun. Taco Bell was unfortunately closed {David was really upset about that}, so we settled for a ham/mushroom pizza, it was actually pretty good so y’all should try it. Then to finish off the night, we took an Uber home and Alex and I fell asleep in the back seat while David interviewed the driver like the journalism major he is. YES they use Uber here!! They LOVE Uber.

Megan and I have been to Ojo de Agua, a pool about 3o minutes away. The water comes from a river and is FREEZING, perfect for a hot day. However, we are just now entering winter aka the rainy season. Every day around 1-3 the clouds roll in and the down pour begins. I have never seen it rain so hard in my entire life, no wonder Costa Rica is so lush and tropical. We also visited Museo Nacional in San José. The view from the top of the building overlooking San José was my favorite part, besides the butterfly garden 🙂

Yesterday I attended the Paradise tattoo convention with my tica friend Amanda. Actually, correction, she is Guatemalan but moved to Costa Rica almost a year ago.. so basically she’s pretty darn awesome and is doing what I would like to do! Anywho, she invited me to tag along while she got her first tattoo! I am so honored to have been present and a part of it! It was such a fun experience even though we were the only ones there without our faces tattooed, weird body parts pierced, or crazy hair cuts. We stuck out like sore thumbs but that was what made it fun! She got super cute tattoo and called her mom in Guatemala to let her know that she survived the pain! Amanda, if you’re reading this thank you again for inviting me and letting me take pictures of you while you were freaking out ❤ hehe.

OH YEAH! PS I got my second tattoo. In Costa Rica. It says “no hay mal que pro bien no venga” which means there is no bad from which good doesn’t come. Aka there’s always something good to come from a bad situation. This tattoo means a lot to me and will remind me how far God has brought me the past couple of years.

For the next three weeks I do not have a TON of things planned, but I do intend to spend LOTS of time with my tico friends and have lots of stories to tell. Until next time. Pura Vida!

Shandi

 

 

A letter to my SOLmates

SOLmates,

Well, today is our last day all together. Before I embarked on this Costa Rican adventure, I had no expectations of meeting such incredible people. I expected to jump off waterfalls, swim in the ocean, practice spanish, etc. but I had no idea that I would meet so many incredible people on this trip. People that would change my life.

I remember the first day we all met.  We nervously introduced ourselves, looked around our circle of 30+ people, and wondered who our close friends would be. We wondered who we would go on trips with, have class with, have deep conversations with, and do adventurous things {in general} with.  However, to our surprise, we all became friends in one way or another. So many of you have touched my heart and impacted my life in ways that are hard to explain. You all have this spontaneity, a craving for adventure, and you are willing to overcome your fears to live life to the fullest. I watched Tim jump in the water even though he didn’t know how to swim, Marrissa and Jenny conquer their fear of heights when we went zip lining, Abbie face her fear of monkeys in Punta Mona {haha}.. BUT most of all, I will never forget how all of us willingly escaped our comfort zones and jumped right into the pura vida lifestyle… TOGETHER. I have found so many amazing friendships that I know will last a lifetime.  I met people who made me jump off of said waterfall, go parasailing, encouraged me to get yet another tattoo.. I met people who listened to me when I complained about hiking 3 hours in the jungle, lost my bus ticket in Manuel Antonio, hurt my jaw playing soccer, got a little too bus sick on our excursions, ate meat for the first time in 2 months, and all of the other crazy things that have happened throughout this 3 month journey..You people are incredible and I have no doubt in my mind that you will all go so far in life. Isn’t crazy, this is the last time we will all be in the same place at the same time? This will never happen again. We won’t be able to walk to school together, go get Milan’s every week, sit in Heredia Centro, run away from birds in San José, get lost trying to find bus stops, take spontaneous trips on the weekends, nor will we be able to see each other every day as we do now. However, despite the distance and how long it may be until I see at least some of you again, please know to never give up on your dreams. Please keep traveling, keep growing, and keep impacting others lives as you have impacted mine. I have said so little but there are truly no words to describe this bittersweet moment; the joy I feel to have met you all and also the sadness I feel to see you all go. You all have a special place in my heart and if you ever find yourself in Texas, my home is your home. I wish you all safe travels and the greatest things that life has to offer. You are all so special, I couldn’t have asked for a better group to have spent this life changing adventure with. PURA VIDA.

All my love,

Shandi aka Shenny

 

 

 

Semana santa and soccer games

Well hello there readers and followers of my adventures. I have a LOT to catch you up on! First and foremost, a couple of weeks ago I extended my plane ticket and will be staying in Costa Rica for a WHOLE EXTRA MONTH [with my current housemate and soon-t0-be other roommate Cami!] I could not be any more excited ahhh. However something that I am not looking forward to one bit is when our other friends head back to the states AKA next weekend!! Where has the time gone? It seems like I was just arriving to Costa Rica, experiencing so many new things and now the semester is quickly coming to an end. I’m not going to think about it for right now though..

Moving along to what the heck I have been doing the past month or so (here’s where the super adventurous/wild things come into play):

So one of our program excursions was going to swim/visit a waterfall and go zip lining. The waterfall is called La Fortuna and is located about 2-3 hours from where I am living in Costa Rica. Don’t be fooled though.. although the trip was short it was a rough one. The roads were extremely windy and I can honestly say I have never felt that carsick (bus sick, in this case) in my entire life.. So to make the nausea and brink of vomiting subside, I along with my friend Mori, took a Dramamine. DO NOT TAKE DRAMAMINE.. especially if you’re climbing down a couple hundred steps to a waterfall. Mori and I were pretty much drugged; glassy eyed, trembling legs, and all. I don’t remember any of the conversations I had with anyone, taking photos, nor walking down said hundred steps. It was actually hilarious. We got on the bus and this was our dialogue:

Mori- “Shandi, let’s listen to Justin Bieber on your phone.”

Me- “Let’s.”

**stares at each other blankly for a solid 10 seconds straight**

Me- “Okay, I’ll get the headphones.”

We were a mess, but the waterfall was BREATHTAKINGLY BEAUTIFUL, I definitely remember that. Also, it was the coldest water I have ever stepped foot in. After a couple of minutes my legs were numb and it wasn’t unbearably awful 😉 I mean who gets to say they swam in a waterfall in Costa Rica? It was worth it. We stayed at the most exotic resort/hotel right by a volcano for the weekend, as well. One of the many pools was a natural hot spring and they were also surrounded by watersides that were SO FUN to slide down.. I got some great GoPro footage of that! There was also a swim a bar which was pretty cool. We did not have wifi all weekend which made for a relaxing, technology-free weekend.

We went zip lining on that Sunday and it was such an incredible experience. I had been zip lining a couple of times before in Nicaragua but this was a lot different. We had the opportunity to do the Tarzan swing-basically they attach your harness to a rope and push you out over the top of the forest. It was EXHILARATINGLY fun. The last run we had was called Superman- attached by the back of your harness- face down- zooming over the rainforest without a care in the world.

Directly after this trip we had SEMANA SANTA!! Semana Santa is basically like spring break (in a sense) but mostly it is to celebrate Easter for an entire week. My housemate Megan and I can now say that we successfully planned a whole week of travel along the southern coast. Although there were hiccups along the road, we had an amazing time. Here’s how our week went:

Monday:

Cami picked up her twin sister Brynne at the airport
Met at the bus terminal in San José (Megan, Mori, Cami, Brynne, Mori’s friend Charlie, and I)
Traveled to Playa Uvita and stayed at a really cool/chill hostel called Toucan Hotel (for those of you looking to travel to Costa Rica in the near future)
Tuesday:

Visited Playa Hermosa just down the road from Uvita
Spent about 3-4 hours there and got BURNT TO A CRISP
Met the cutest little girl while we were looking at jewelry and other souvenirs while we waited for our taxi
Went to La Catarata de Uvita- Uvita waterfall
SCALED THE ROCKS TO CLIMB TO THE TOP
SLID DOWN THE WATER FALL’S NATURALLY CARVED ROCK SLIDE
JUMPED OFF THE TOP OF THE CLIFF AT THE WATER FALL and honestly could have fallen to my death because I didn’t jump far enough and almost banged my head on a rock but I am walked away with 0 scratches!!
Wednesday:

Visited Playa Ballena- this beach is called “Whale tail beach” because during low tide and hide tide a part of the beach is uncovered and looks like a whale’s tail, fitting name right?
It’s actually really interesting because this is a hub for whale mating season and the beach is literally shaped like a whale!! God is so cool!
Took lots of artsy pics on the rocks
May have been a little dehydrated because it was 12093898 degrees outside
Sat underneath a coconut tree
Thursday:

4:30 AM wake up call to catch the bus to MANUEL ANTONIO at 5 AM
Brushed our teeth at the bus stop with a bottle of water
The bus actually came at 5:30 so we were rushing around like maniacs for no reason
Sat next to an old man in the very front of the bus who started shaking me saying “LETS GO LETS GO” when we arrived
Found our hostel “Vista Serena”, another amazing one with a great view (that’s the actual name of the place)
WENT PARASAILING on the beach with Cami and Brynne
Had bacon for the first time in 2 months, finally!!
Visited Manuel Antonio National Park
Swam in the ocean at the park
Saw sloths and monkeys in their natural habitat
Said goodbye to Brynne because she had to go home 😦
Ate dinner right above the main street in front of the beach and watched the sunset
Friday:

Slept in this day and had tea/toast with butter and guava jam on the deck with an amazing view of the ocean
HAD A SUPER CHILL DAY and it was PERFECT
Spend 4-5 on the beach (under the shade) reading, listening to music, journaling etc. Mori and I swam quite a bit too
Saturday:

Came home
Manuel Antonio has HANDS DOWN been my favorite beach so far. The sunset was so beautiful and the town was so full of stuff to do/places to see/souvenirs to look at, even there were TONS of foreigners.. It’s really strange to see white people because where I live there are never any just casually walking around.

The Tuesday after Semana Santa, our entire study abroad group attending the COSTA RICA vs JAMAICA soccer game at the national stadium (Estadio Nacional) in San José.! I can honestly say that was one of the coolest things I’ve ever done. A lot of us painted our faces (some guys painted their bodies) and yelled like Costa Rica was our home country. For my fellow soccer fanatics, the goalie for Real Madrid Keylor Navas, is from Costa Rica.. and even though I’m a Barcelona fan, it was a cool experience to see him play in the flesh!! Every time CR scored a goal, the crowd would chant “OLÉ OLÉ OLÉ OLÉ TICOS TICOS!!” and that was probably my favorite part. Honestly, it was fascinating to be in that atmosphere because you could FEEL the patriotism and pride. That night I felt like I myself, was a Tica. Oh and “we” beat Jamaica 2-1! VIVA COSTA RICA!
Something else I did recently was go on a field trip with my history class. My history class is made up of 4 gringos (white peeps) and the rest are Ticos. It was the funnest weekend I have had so far. My Tico friends are ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS. From having to stop to use the bathroom every 30 minutes, hiking through 90 degree heat, singing on the bus, creating inside jokes, playing soccer on the beach at sunset, etc. I AM SO BLESSED TO HAVE MET ALL OF MY CLASSMATES! They’re wonderful.

I actually have a really funny story that I can’t leave out of this blog post:

One night at the hotel, Mori and I had already showered and were laying in bed with the lights off while all of our classmates were eating dinner/getting ready to go out for the night. All of a sudden the door knob shaking and we started freaking out because we were just on this field trip 5 hours away from “home” with a bunch of Ticos. WELL. This little head peeked through the door and it was our friend David. {David is probably my best Tico friend I have made this whole semester}. Keep in mind the lights were still off and he just opened the door without knocking.. He said, “Hey! What are y’all doing in here?”(in Spanish of course). I was like, “Laying in bed. What are you doing? Why did you open the door?”. His reasoning was “Because the door was unlocked”. I COULD NOT STOP LAUGHING. He just came and started chattin’ it up with us. He concluded by telling us we’d better lock the door or he’d come in later once he got back from the bar hahaha. Yes, 90% of our classmates including our professor went out for drinks/dancing while Mori and I stayed in and went to sleep early. But the field trip was actually really interesting because we learned more about the history of Costa Rica and even stuff about the United States that I have never known about. My Tico classmates/friends are incredibly kind and have embraced me like their own this semester and I am so grateful for that. Also, I made a 100 on my HISTORY OF COSTA RICA FINAL EXAM. Sorry, just had to slip that in there too 🙂
Anywho. Moving along.

Something else I’ve done recently is visit an active volcano- Volcán Poás and travel to Guanacaste {a province of Costa Rica about 4-5 hours away, where I went for my field trip} with my Mama Tica for her daughters birthday. It was super fun to spend the weekend with my Costa Rican family, visit the beach, get half way into the ocean because the water was absolutely freezing, eat a ton of food, and lay by the pool. On the way home from our weekend getaway, we stopped at my Mama Tica’s sister’s house and spent a couple of hours there just catching up. Megan and I quickly became friends with a little girl named Nicole who asked us to spend the night and also took us to her backyard to knock mangos out of the tree. Which we did. Her grandpa got this extremely long bamboo stick and knocked mangos out of the tree for us to take home. I think this will be one of my favorite memories. We will be going back soon to visit Nicole and eat more fruit that we knock out of trees!! Can’t wait.

I am so excited about my trip extension and am actually dreading coming home. But for now, the adventure continues!

Love,

Shandi

 

 

 

With love from Central America

Hello readers,

I feel as though I am always starting my posts with an apology. Therefore, I am sorry for the delay but life here has been super hectic recently! I am currently in my third module of the semester and I am pretty sure all of my professors met secretly and decided to assign all of my major projects and essays at the same time. This next week is Semana Santa (Spring Break, basically) so I will have a small vacation to rest from said schoolwork.. Just kidding, I have a final exam when I return. YAY!

Until I have more news and updates regarding Semana Santa and my stressful next couple of weeks, I’ll catch y’all up on all that’s been going on in my Costa Rican life:

A couple of weeks ago I went to Volcán Irazu. It’s about 2 hours from where I live and we made a day trip out of it! Really all we did was walk around the edge of the volcano, collected volcanic rock (pretty sure that was against the park rules but oh well), and fed some adorable raccoon-like animals,”Pizotes”, that nearly attack you when you get off the bus. It sounds terrifying but don’t worry, it was actually really entertaining. It was incredible to say that I walked in a REAL volcano and ya know, the fact that not many people can just travel to one on a Wednesday afternoon.

THAT WEEKEND we traveled about 9 hours by bus to NICARAGUA. The country that stole my heart from the first time I stepped on foreign soil five years ago. Yes, this bus ride seemed like it would never end BUT traveling with awesome friends and a good spotify playlist made it a lot less exhausting. Once we reached the border, we had to have our passports stamped for EXITING Costa Rica and ARRIVING to Nicaragua. In total I collected 4 new stamps!! We mostly stayed in Granada, Nicaragua for the weekend and it was a completely new experience for me. For having visited Nicaragua 4 times for mission purposes, being a tourist was strange.

Our weekend consisted of these activities:

  • Visiting the Granada market
  • Getting yelled at by some lady for taking a picture of her fruit. She wanted me to pay her $10 which was a little ridiculous I must say.
  • Eating fruit from random street vendors (for those of you that have been to
  • Nicaragua, I was finally reunited with Mamon Chino and Jocote!!)
  • Ate for CHEAP at a typical Nicaraguan restaurante
  • Met little boys that beg for money in order to buy glue to sniff. This was a heartbreaking experience for me. Children in Nicaragua and people in general often to curb hunger by getting high. It was unreal to become acquainted with kids whose reality is sniffing glue.
  • Ate amazing quesillos (tortillas with cheese and this delicious sauce that almost tastes like sauerkraut.. my mouth is watering as I am typing this). The cutest little boy walked up when I was ordering mine so I went ahead and bought his! However, the only stipulation was that I could take a photo of him that I WILL of course include
  • Swam in Laguna de Apoyo. Google it! It’s a beautiful little lake that holds the majority of Nicaragua’s potable water.
  • Went on a boat tour
  • Made my own ceramic from a pottery wheel that you operate by foot
  • Got called “una estrella del cielo” (star from the sky) by some random guy
  • Visited a restaurant called Café de las Sonrisas. A majority of the employees are deaf and have been provided a salary because many employers in Nicaragua will not hire people with “disabilities”
  • Watched them weave hammocks, one was from a plastic bag
  • Got told my Spanish was wonderful and I could pass as a “Nica”.. which made my night
  • Smuggled mango back across the border (don’t tell the border police please

The Nicaragua excursion was great! A lot of the places I had already been, but it was special to have experienced again with new friends. The poverty is something I have never been able to and still can not put into words, but it is the cruel reality of this beautiful country. I still feel as though Nicaragua is where my heart and sacrifice belongs. Until next time mi nicaraguita.

I have also taken a folkloric dance class in which we wore big silky skirts (the guys wore something different of course haha) and danced around like fools. I loved every second of it. I also had the opportunity to visit an animal rescue ranch “Toucan Rescue Ranch”. At this animal shelter, I got to see SLOTHS and TOUCANS in the flesh!! Sloths are even more adorable in person than they are in the photos. All they do is sleep and eat and I appreciate that. It was interesting to hear stories about how the animals were found and the conditions they were rescued from. Oh and I also got to see a BABY MONKEY. Don’t worry, I’m without a doubt attaching a photo.

This past weekend Megan, Morrissa, Megan’s dad, and I went to Playa Conchal. Playa Conchal “Shell Beach” is located in the province of Guanacaste (see map below)..

 

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We traveled 6 HOURS in a bus with absolutely NO air conditioner. At one point I could feel the sweat rolling down my back.. TMI? Maybe. However, I felt the need to insinuate just how uncomfortable it was. Playa Conchal is absolutey BEAUTIFUL, a must see if you plan on visiting Costa Rica in the future. The sand is so soft and composed of tiny crushed shells. The water is turquoise and the perfect temperature. One of my favorite things was grabbing a handful of sand when we were swimming to see what kind of shells I could find. There were SO many shells, it was fascinating. I drank straight from a coconut and got a massage for $20. It truly felt like paradise. The heat didn’t even seem to bother me.. until I got into the hotel room and discovered a pretty gnarly sunburn on my shoulders. HEY! I applied sunscreen at least 5 different times throughout the day. Being a ginger is hard sometimes, okay.

Today I got to see how coffee is grown through a company called Cafe Britt and it was extremely interesting to hear the process behind my often taken-for-granted Costa Rican blend coffee in the United States. Did you know that they pick EVERY single coffee bean BY HAND. Just a fun fact to ponder when you’re drinking your coffee in the morning 🙂

I am so grateful for all of these incredible opportunities I have been offered and this little country that has made me feel more at home than home does at times. I’m having so much fun.

With love,

Shandi

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Dancing, day trips and doin’ Tico things

Hello everyone, I keep getting behind on this whole blogging thing.. So much has happened since my last post but I’ve been collecting stories and photos to post all in one blog 🙂

I’m going to back up to a couple of weeks ago when my roommate and friend Morrissa went dancing for the first time. I have always wanted to learn how to dance to Latino music so that’s what we did. We went to a dance club called “Típico Latino” with a Tico friend of ours. WE HAD THE TIME OF OUR LIFE. It was and has been one of my favorite nights in Costa Rica. We actually returned the next day with some other girls from our program, but we were not aware that it was… old people night. Within the first five minutes, this little old man came over and asked me to dance. I HAD to say yes because I didn’t want to hurt his feelings by rejecting him hahah (I will insert a photo). He was precious and only really knew one dance move and couldn’t move his hips very much because of his old age. But honestly dancing with old people has never been so fun. I danced with an old man that didn’t have teeth.. yeah. We all laughed so much that night.

Morrissa and I asked an elderly couple if they would take a picture of us and after they said “Of course”, they began to pose for a photo. They thought WE wanted a photo of THEM. They didn’t understand and it was so funny to us for some reason. (To add to the story, one day we were walking down the street and someone honked their horn at us… whereas horn honking/cat-calling is normal here in CR, we weren’t surprised.. until we looked into the car passing by and it was the elderly couple we took a photo of! They were honking and waving at us. It was hilarious.) That night at Típico Latino, as I said was one of the funnest nights I’ve had here, opened my eyes. The Tico friend we went with brought some of his close friends and we bonded instantly. At home (at Wesley fifth quarter dances), all of the girls go out on the dance floor and dance together.. well that’s what happened that night. One of the Ticas grabbed me and told me to go dance with her. While we were dancing, like we were the best of friends and hadn’t just met, she told me that I should go with her and her boyfriend to the beach one weekend. Once she told me this, I realized that although I am a foreigner, I am excepted. She wanted to hang out with me, a gringa.. someone she had never met previously. I also realized in that moment that my life in the United States will most likely be short-term.. I LOVE Costa Rica/Central America in general. I love the way that everyone embraces you here and is willing to help you with whatever needs you have. I love that they consider you not only as friends but as family and that is something that I lack at home. They made Costa Rica instantly feel like a safe place for me.

Anyways, moving along.. I also had to buy a new pair of sandals recently because this same Tico friend said my Chacos were ugly (Noel if you’re reading this, you were right about them I guess haha). I mostly just wanted to look less like a tourist, so I caved. They were only like $18 which isn’t too shabby.

**I finished Module 1 and my Module 2 is open so I’ve just been chillin’ all day (I do have 2 classes with locals on Monday), but it has been nice to just relax and not have to go to class in the mornings. I have one more week free and then on to Module 3… crazy.**

History is really really challenging. However, I have also felt so much warmth and love from my Tico classmates that it makes it worth it. I gave a presentation with a partner, David, this Monday and when I went to the front a guy in my class looked at me and said, “Tranquila, le podemos ayudar”, which means “relax we can help you”. They are all so patient and understanding with me. It’s very reassuring. ESPECIALLY because after my presentation and before class was over, we had to form another group for another project and the coolest/most hipster people in my class asked ME to be in their group. It made me feel so special that they would want me to be a part of their project. But yeah, on to other things..

A couple of weeks ago we went white water rafting in “el Rio Pacuare”, a river in the province of Limón (Costa Rica has 7 provinces). Limón is actually quite dangerous but we won’t go into that.. So my team/group nominated our friend Isaac and I to be the leaders. We had to row at the same time and keep the boat under control basically. It was really challenging but I felt honored to know that my friends trusted me with their lives haha. We rafted through class 2-4 rapids and it was so exhilarating. I will have to say my favorite part was when we passed through a canyon (GOOGLE Rio Pacuare Canyon), the water got still and we were allowed to jump out of the raft to swim for a bit. If you know me well, you would know that murky water freaks me out. For example, I hate swimming in lakes. But I hopped right out and floated for a while. It was one of the most beautiful views I’ve seen in my life. It was a sentimental moment for me as well.. I was swimming beside some of my closest friends/”sol mates”/ people I’ve met during this experience and I couldn’t wrap my mind around the fact that I was swimming. In a river. In Costa Rica. At one point one of my “sol mates”, Erin, said “We think this is beautiful, imagine what heaven will be like”. I thought that was a great way to look at it. I feel like Costa Rica is a little piece of heaven 😉

My parents came to visit me as well this past weekend and it was such a blast! Before they arrived, Morrissa and I went to San José to buy bus tickets so that we could all go to the beach on Saturday. Well.. the bus stop that was posted on the website was NOT the bus stop we needed to go to. They changed it, moved it to a completely different part. Oh and on the way there the lady beside me on the bus was typing “cuidarse por los ladrones” (which means watch out for thieves) into google translate for me. I saw it out of the corner of my eye and was thinking, “Well it was a nice life. This is where I get robbed and die on the streets of Costa Rica.” BUT I didn’t, thankfully. Oh and neither did Morrissa. The translator took us to the wrong bus stop but it was nice of her to take time out of her day to make sure we got where we “needed to go” safely. Finally after taking a taxi to the RIGHT bus terminal, we purchased our tickets and went to the third floor (the bus terminal has a lot of cool shops/places to eat) and found the COOLEST coffee shop with the most beautiful view of the city. You can see Estadio Nacional, where CR plays soccer. SO COOL! We also met a fellow gringa in the bus terminal whom we helped encourage, change her money, and inform her about the adventure that was about to begin. She told us she had no plans and had spontaneously booked her trip to escape her post-breakup life and I admire her for that. It takes a very brave person to do what she was doing and it inspired me just meeting her. It’s so cool to hear everyone’s story!

So I picked my parents up at the airport and we did little things like going to see my university/walking around the mall/exploring down town. BUT we went to Jacó Beach on Saturday. I am still proud that I successfully planned a weekend trip to the beach. Anywho.. we left at 7 AM and arrived in Jacó 2 hours later. It was SO hot. I’ve been accustomed to the chilly nights/windy afternoons in Heredia, but the beach was the exact opposite. Also, I put sunscreen on like 5 times and I still got a little burnt. Down the beach a ways there were some rocks/coral that we explored and of course had to take pictures on (will include in this post). We kept going on and on about how we can’t believe that this is normal life for us. It was a casual Saturday just hanging at the beach.. in Costa Rica. For a bit I laid on my sarong and read “Come, Reza, Ama” (Eat Pray Love) and it was so nice to just relax for a bit. We had ALL day to hang at the beach which eventually got a little to hot, so we ate at a Soda (small family-owned restaurant that costs little to nothing) and later got ice cream. The bus left at 6 PM and we got to San José in an hour and fifteen minutes… the trip is 2 hours. Which means our bus drive was HAULING BUTT. He really was. I went to sleep so I didn’t have to watch him weaving in and out of traffic.
Tuesday (April 16th) we went to the National Theater and watched a musical/play/drama about Mayan Gods and Ghosts. It was spectacular whenever I wasn’t dozing off. It’s not that it was boring, it was just that it was dark in there and I wasn’t the only one okay hahaha.

Last night 5 of us went to a Costa Rica league (SAPRISSA- San José’s team) soccer game. A lot of Costa Rican cities/towns have leagues but we decided that we like Saprissa so that’s just what we did. We took the bus (very confusing) to a small town about 15-20 minutes from Heredia where the Saprissa stadium is and watched them play against the University of Costa Rica. It was my first ACTUAL, real life soccer game and I loved every second of it. They even have a spirit group like the Maroon Platoon (at WT) called “La Ultra”.. I asked a boy beside me if I could join, he said yes. Then I jokingly asked if I should, and he said no. So unfortunately that did happen 😉 but Saprissa won 3-0 and we had such a good time cheering them on/just spending time at the game. It was very exciting because Latinos take their soccer VERY seriously and it was amusing to be present for that.

Speaking of soccer, a group of us girls play around 4:00ish in our neighborhood with kids/teenagers/etc. and it’s usually the highlight of my day. About a week ago (*cue Fetty Wap*) someone kicked the ball into my hand which bounced off and smacked me right in the jaw.. My jaw is still in so much pain. DON’T TELL MY MAMA TICA OR SHE’LL MAKE ME STOP PLAYING hahaha. I can’t go to the doctor for it because there’s really nothing they can do to fix it besides give me pain meds so I’m just gonna tough it out and keep playing soccer like nothing ever happened. Sacrifices, right?

Today some friends and I walked around the neighborhood for a casual photo shoot and it was TONS of fun. We got some super cool pics that I’ll share in this post. I’m glad I have friends who like to do spontaneous things and take go on photo adventures in the middle of the day.

 

 

I love Costa Rica y’all. Pura Vida.

 

Namast’ay en Heredia

Punta Mona is a secluded island on the southern coast of the country (almost to the border of Panama) and that’s where we went on our first excursion! The story behind Punta Mona is very empowering/inspiring, it makes you want to change the little things in life. The man that created Punta Mona was traveling through Costa Rica almost 20 years ago and encountered an unfortunate issue that he would soon find the solution to. Bananas marked with Dole, La Chiquita, and Del Monte are imported from Costa Rica and the process of growing bananas has not always been a flawless one.

Steven, the founder of Punta Mona, watched a crop duster spray a field of children playing soccer while fertilizing

the banana plantations.. which makes my heart ache. Steven knew he needed to do something to fix this problem, so he did. He began implementing the idea of Permaculture into his life and the lives of many others.. which lead to the establishment of Punta Mona. Punta Mona is a 7 hour bus ride from Heredia and 30 minutes to the point, an organic farm where they up cycle compost everything… and by everything I mean everything. I didn’t know that feces was in demand these days if ya know what I mean. If you don’t know what I mean, let me enlighten you:

Saturday:

We took a bus to Manzanillo, Costa Rica so we could go by boat across the ocean to the little island. Let me also add that I have never been so car sick in my life. Anways.. We arrived in Manzanillo and got in our boats (with our things in trash bags to keep from getting wet). This part of the trip made me reflect on how much God loves me. My life has not always presented me the most enjoyable experiences and I have had my heart broken many times, but even through those times God knew that I would one day be here to experience the beautiful things that come even after the most difficult of times. That was one lesson I have learned so far: there are always good things to come. The boat ride made me emotional because I experienced the magnitude of God’s love and provision in my life and I was overwhelmed by how much he cares for me.

Once we arrived in Punta Monta, we were all SO anxious to run onto the beach and experience the salty joy of swimming in the ocean. After what seemed like YEARS, we finally got to swim in the ocean- something I have been itching to do since the last time I was in Nicaragua. Later that night we had a campfire and my friend Tino began singing worship songs which made for a very sweet, special experience with my fellow Christian Solmates!

Okay so brace yourself for the next part of this recap because this is where the waters get choppy… too soon.

Saturday morning we woke up to a beautiful sunrise and the sound of the howler monkeys in the trees. I went to a yoga class which was pretty relaxing and I think I even started snoring.. oops. Later on we walked 1o minutes to a river where we covered ourselves in mud/clay to make our skin and hair soft. It was so cool to casually have our own naturally spa day 😉 We washed off in the river when our mud was dry and made a beeline for the ocean. I got a not so cute sunburn, like… all over my body. BUT in my defense I put sunscreen on two times before it was even noon. I also got to go snorkeling in the coral reef close to shore with two of my friends Abbie and MariaClara. We only saw little fish and a few sea urchins, but it was cool nonetheless.

We later took a tour of the farm where the, for lack of a better term, Hippies grow their food and raise their animals. It was interesting to see how they maintain and preserve a natural lifestyle. I also got to eat some fresh Maracuyá which I mentioned in my previous blog post!

AND HERE IS WHERE IT GETS INTERESTING:

The… people that inhabit Punta Mona… picked some cacao fruit from their trees so that we could make chocolate from scratch. So basically the process of chocolate making goes like this (take the seeds out, toast them, put them in the grinder a couple of times, mix with desired flavors, and refrigerate). So that’s what we did. The chocolate tasted really good, but as they say.. all good things come to an end. We went to the stage where the yoga class took place and to our surprise we made a circle around some candles and listened to these people basically worship mother nature or as they put it “Pachamama”.

Cacao has been considered as a natural medicine for many years because it brings forth instant happiness so that was the main goal of this “Cacao ceremony”. We went around the circle three times and each time we had to say something different.

The first: Something that nature had taught us during our stay

The second: Send our love to someone who needed it

The third: Put up an offering

I know, I know… none of you will believe me. Naturally, I openly spoke about God and all the things he has done for my life.. I truly felt like the name of the Lord needed to be spoken in that place, so that is what I did. At the end of the ceremony, one of the ladies told us that she wanted us to pick up an article (on the way back to the main room) to “let go of” in the ocean. Although I did not feel comfortable participating in the nature praising events, I felt something stirring inside me. That morning I actually woke up with something heavy on my chest, something I haven’t had to deal with for quite some time, and I wasn’t quite sure why I was worrying about it then.. I know that this moment was the reason why God sent me to Punta Mona because I grabbed a shell of the sand, prayed over this particular heaviness/burden that I have been carrying around for so long, and threw it into the waves. That is no longer a part of me anymore. I found my freedom. Although the singing to Mother Nature was too much for me, I know that there are good things hidden in difficult moments.

So after the already interesting weekend we had urinating on trees, taking freezing cold showers, dealing with pesky cockroaches, endlessly scratching our legs due to sand fleas, and many other overwhelming encounters, we were more than ready to come home to our Mama Tica. So we woke up bright and early Sunday morning with expectations of getting on that boat and going home.. to which were soon destroyed by a tropical storm.

We all got ready for the boat ride by putting on clothes that could get wet and packing ones to change into… we had to change. Into hiking clothes. Into shoes that could get muddy. Because the tropical storm made taking a boat across the ocean extremely dangerous, so we HIKED through the jungle for 3 hours. Which, now that I look back on that moment, it’s extremely cool to say that I hiked through a jungle in Costa Rica, but it was very challenging at the time.

I actually captured a few photos of our emotions during the hike, which I hope you all enjoy because they are very entertaining and comical.

The point is, we really just wanted to go home and not smell like feet. But I will also say that another moment made everything worthwhile for me…

When we arrived on land/to civilization, we washed off our shoes in the ocean. I was standing near a little boy and his father playing in the ocean. The little boy was more than ecstatic to be playing in the water and the sound of the his laughter and the huge smile that he had on his face put so much joy in my heart. It reminded me to enjoy the simple things in life, like being able to swim in the ocean and feel the salt water on your skin or getting to trudge through a muddy hole aka the jungle with your Solmates.

My roommate Megan and I were OVERJOYED to return to Heredia and our Mama Tica because our emotions were rampant and we could not control the waterworks (we even started crying when she brought us clean towels and told us we smelled bad hahah). Of course, we didn’t get home until after our taxi driver asked us to go dancing with him.. an idea in which we shut down quickly. Sorry sir… I just wanted to go home.

All in all, something I learned from Punta Mona is this:

Life is about enjoying the hidden blessings and making the most out of challenging circumstances that make you uncomfortable. As Hannah Montana said, “Life’s what you make it so let’s make it rock”. Pura vida 🙂

Tico time and new adventures

Despite missing home and slightly being overwhelmed by moving to a new country for four months, my first week in Costa Rica far exceeded my expectations. I did not intend to fall in love with this place as quickly as I did but it was inevitable that it would happen, right?

Last monday was my first day of classes in another country! Our semester is split into four modules three week modules: Module 1 (Advanced 2 Spanish), Module 2 (Open), Module 3 (Latin American Literature), and Module 4 (Latin American Culture and Civilization). In addition to these classes I have two classes with locals aka other students from Costa Rica on Mondays. I am taking Digital Photography and the History of Costa Rica. The first day of class we were all given a placement exam to ensure that the Spanish class we all selected was the right one for us.. I’m not going to lie, it was a bit challenging but I thankfully tested into my Advanced 2 class in which I had signed up for! My professor’s name is Arturo and we all think he is super “chiva” (which means cool) because he dresses like a hipster… which we all find really funny. My photography class seems like it will be pretty interesting because we get to practice what we learn with our cameras! My history class will be one that I will have to work really hard to get an A in because it is extremely challenging. In February I am supposed to give a presentation with my Tico (what Costa Rican’s are called) partner, David.. it shall be an interesting adventure but pura vida!! Haha

One day this week Megan and I decided that we wanted to go downtown to the market. So once we ate lunch, we walked to the bus stop. We missed the bus two times.

First time: We were standing there and saw another bus pass by and Megan said, “Wait, uh, is that our bus?”.. it was

Second time: We went to the coffee shop to journal and got back home around 2:50.. well the bus leaves every half our. *SIDENOTE: there is a thing called Tico time because everyone in Costa Rica goes by their own time* So we start walking towards the bus stop and the bus was already driving off.. NOT AT 3, NOT ON TICO TIME… we were running through the street chasing it like it was going to stop for us gringas. Which it didn’t by the way.

FINALLY we caught the bus and went downtown to browse the different shops and get some Epsom Salt for our Mama Tica because she injured her foot. Well… on the way back home we tried to find the right bus stop (if you take the wrong one you could end up somewhere you weren’t intending to go haha). We asked what seemed like 10 people for directions to our bus stop because we were definitely lost and finally we came across and angel sent from heaven that told us we were at the right one.  He was cute too so that made it even more worth while, sorry dad 🙂

Another day during this week we took a tour of downtown Heredia and saw all of the most important cultural places/monuments/buildings, etc. Here’s a fun fact for you… Heredia is called the “City of Flowers” because

  1. It has a lot of flowers
  2. The women here are considered “flowers” because of their beauty.. actually one time I was walking down the street and some old guy yelled out his window that I was a flower of Heredia which was both flattering and creepy at the same time.
  3. A man that owned the most intricate/beautiful house in Costa Rica had 2 or 3 daughters that would play on the front porch and everyone would walk in front of their house to see them playing.

We were also told to chose a partner to go into the market with so that we could find a fruit to try. My partner María and I’s was called Granadilla and we had so much fun looking around the market chattin’ with the vendors along the way. We tried so many different fruits and posters that I thought I was going to burst. BUT I have a new favorite fruit (I’ll insert a picture of it in this post… it’s the one that looks like fish eyes. It’s called Maracuyá) As though I am not Catholic, I enjoyed walking through Iglesia De La Imaculada Concepción. It was so cool to see people stopping in the midst of the hustle and bustle of life to pray. It made me realize that I need to be more like that. I need to stop in the chaos of life to spend time with the Lord, in the good moments and the bad. It made me very emotional to see the Catholic students in my group stop to pray and also to reflect on all the moments that lead me here and how great God is that he would bring me to such a beautiful place with such beautiful people.. (which I must say that 90% of Costa Rican men are beautiful so if you’re looking for an attractive/latin boyfriend this is the place to visit hahaha)

I would also like to expand on what PURA VIDA means because although it is the “saying” of Costa Rica, you don’t really understand it until you’re living it. We have come to the conclusion that Pura Vida has a similar meaning as YOLO… for example, “Hey do you think we should cross the street? There’s a motorcycle coming.” “Eh let’s just go anyways, pura vida.” Basically it means life is too short to worry about the little things (which in this case you should probably not cross the street if it puts your life in danger) and that you should make the most of TODAY because tomorrow is not promised. Pura Vida is a saying that provokes hope and reminds people that there is always something beautiful to come no matter the circumstances. 

All in all it was a great week and me being here reminds me of why I am going along this path in life and solidifies the plans that God has for my future. Pura Vida.